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| Sunday, November 8th, 2009 |
sextips
[ striketheband ]
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5:05p |
Self consciousness, and ways to combat it?
Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for about 16 months now, and we've been sleeping together for 14 months of our relationship. Before we got together, I hadn't done anything more than kissing, so everything sexual has been my first time with him. It took a long time for us to get to a point where sex "worked" and it wasn't causing me immense pain and was starting to feel good. Now, sex is great! But I'm still SO self conscious. I find I can only orgasm if we're in a position where I'm not facing him. I was on top, facing him last night and was SO close, but I just couldn't come. It's so frustrating. I love him so much, and am so comfortable around him, so why do I feel like this? Anyone got any advice?! Current Mood:  thirsty |
| Saturday, November 7th, 2009 |
sextips
[ dolledupdolly ]
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7:25p |
sexy/memorable comments and compliments
What are the best sexual comments/compliments you've ever received? You can list anything: a comment about your technique, about how much your SO loves you, anything you've heard from someone that made you feel good and happy (and, I hope, turned you on even more). 1. The first time G got a good look between my legs, he said, "That looks like the last popsicle on earth." 2. A comment I've heard more than once is, "You have perfect/pretty/lovely/spectacular breasts." That makes me happy. 3. M loved nothing more than to go down on a girl, so it was hugely gratifying to me when he paused in the middle of giving me the best oral sex I had ever received in my entire life to say, 'I could eat you all day; [you taste] nice and sweet,' and then he went back to giving me the best oral sex I had ever received in my entire life. 4. The first time he made love to me, my boyfriend said, "I didn't expect you to be so sensitive." And that, of course, made me even more sensitive to every lick and kiss and touch. Mmm. 5. My boyfriend's very reserved/quiet/self-controlled, so it was a compliment to me when I gave him a massage for the first time and heard him groan appreciatively. I was very wet immediately. And now I'm wet again just remembering it. Current Mood:  hornyCurrent Music: Jem | 24 |
| Thursday, November 5th, 2009 |
sextips
[ lovinglimbs ]
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6:46p |
fisting
Hey, this is my first here, so here is some background info before I go into my tangent and ask for some advice. My name is Elie, I'm a senior in high school, I'm in a relationship with a guy I've been with for a little under a month in a half. We are very compatible, especially sexually, we both want to explore this area, but some of his ideas scare me (even if they turn me on.) Like fisting. So my boyfriend and I are meeting up tomorrow night, and we will be having a lot of sex. One thing that makes me nervous though, he suggested trying fisting the other night. Now, in the past I have never done it, nor have I ever wanted too, it sounded so painful and masochistic, I could never understand why anyone wanted to do it. (Which I now realize was close minded of me.) Because the moment he suggested it, it was probably the most phenomenal idea I'd heard all week. Now, I really want to try it, and we plan on it this weekend, but I am still very very nervous about this idea. It's a 50/50 thing. Half excited, half scared as fuck. Also, my boyfriend is, well, huge. I've only been with two people previous to him, and it'd been a year since I had sex the first time we did it, we weren't very rough, but afterwards I was bleeding a little bit, same with the second time. The third time we hung out, I was sick and wasn't up to much so he fingered me, but I bled from that too. Does anyone have any ideas as to why this is happening? I'm sorry, I haven't checked the memories on this question yet. And because of this bleeding thing, is fisting a safe thing to do still? Sorry for rambling so much! I just really don't quite know what I'm doing with this stuff. Oh, also, when reading the memories, I frequently saw it mentioned to use a glove. Is a glove necessary? I'd really preferr not to use one, and same with lube. I honestly produce a lot of that myself, I doubt we'll need it. Or are those absolute necessities for something like this? I've been through and I've read the memories, and they have helped me on the mechanical aspect of this, but I was wondering if anyone would be willing to share stories/personal experiences to help comfort me? This idea really does make me nervous, despite how excited I am. Is it safe? Have you tried it and enjoyed it? (sorry for such a long post!) |
sextips
[ a_tout_pourvoir ]
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11:02a |
Going nuts b/c of lack of sex
So, my boyfriend of 9 months and I just transitioned from long distance (194 miles) to LONG distance (1888 miles). I used to be able to visit him once every one or two weeks. Now I may not see him for quite a while (at least until January). Now here's my problem: I have a very high sex drive which my boyfriend has a hard time keeping up with even when we can see each other. Now that he's physically unreachable, I don't know how to deal with my sex drive. He has already said that he is not ok with an open relationship, so I cannot deal with it that way. It's not about orgasms for me. I masturbate frequently and have no problem giving myself orgasms. Regardless of how frequently or infrequently I masturbate, the longer I go without sex, the more I cannot stop thinking about it. I'm already having a hard time dealing, and I feel like I'm looking at all the guys around me like they are steaks and I am starving. How do you guys subdue your sex drive/get your body/mind to focus its attentions elsewhere? |
sextips
[ manson69freak ]
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9:26p |
Being a mistress/dirty talk
So, I've started playing with this guy who is really submissive. Trouble is, I'm generally the submissive one in my relationships. I find the idea of dominating a guy extremely hot. But I just don't know how to go about it. I get shy, which is really strange for me because I'm not generally a shy person. I find it hard to be blunt about things, and the idea of telling him how much of a bad boy he's been, and how he needs to be punished, kind of makes me giggle when I go to say it out loud. We've played with riding crops and whips, but he wants to be tied up and have a real hardcore dominatrix experience. It really doesn't make sense because I have these dominating tendencies, but when I try to put them into action, it just kind of fails. So any tips on how I can slowly easy myself into it, or what kind of things I can say to him, what I should do, etc, would be great. I think its the verbal part that I'm having the most trouble with... I just don't know what to say. And how to say it without feeling like an idiot. I did check the memories, and found a lot of great information. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had this problem, and how they've got around it. The idea of roughing him up is so appealing to me, and I want to do it so much! I just don't know where to start. He hasn't had too much experience with it either, so he hasn't been very helpful when I've asked him about it. Lol. Thanks in advance! |
| Sunday, November 8th, 2009 |
spiritedrinoa
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4:54p |
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catystorm
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2:00p |
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metaquotes
[ subversivecynic ]
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1:41p |
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agingdragqueen
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12:13p |
I finally updated the narwhals on my site. If you care to look, you will probably notice that I have mostly stopped because Scott has MADE WAY TOO MANY ALREADY (not a bad thing). |
emrinalexander
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1:05p |
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| Monday, November 9th, 2009 |
valska
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1:27a |
HP Mini by Studio Tord Boontje
Originally published at As My Life Is. You can comment here or there. It’s no secret that I am a Mac fangirl. HP took a leap of faith and handed me an HP Mini this year, knowing that I’d be won over by the machine’s handy size, despite it being a Windows computer. And they were right. On the occasions where I would not be doing photo processing work, on the go, I bring the HP Mini because it fits snugly in my bag without looking like I’m running away from home.
I only wish that the processor was fast enough to handle the slideshows I create for my wedding clients to play at the wedding dinner.
During that time, I lusted over the Vivienne Tam version of the HP Mini. I loved how it was red and bold, and made to look very much like a fashion accessory.
HP has outdone itself this time by its collaboration with world-renouned Dutch industrial designer, Tord Boontje. It was launched at Bar 84, Gallery Hotel, over the weekend, organised by HP Singapore and Waggener Edstrom.
This is my friend, Josie aka @omgitsjosie, who forgets that she’s Asian. <3
Next to her is @gnoserif.
The delightful, Pat Law.
It features the industry’s first 3D PC surface technology — HP Imprint 3D, which gives depth to Boontje’s design of flora and endangered animals on the casing of the Mini. It really is rather gorgeous and we each received an umbrella with the imprint too! (Not with the HP Imprint 3D, of course!)
Tord signing my umbrella.
What’s best about this new mini — it runs on Windows 7 and I’ve heard nothing but good things about the OS. I really want to try it. And if the processor is fast enough, it would be an excellent computer to bring for my wedding shoots, without adding too much weight to my current gear.
With Tord, and trying not to topple over him.
Get the HP Mini by Studio Tord Boontje exclusively with StarHub today. |
| Sunday, November 8th, 2009 |
sabonasi
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11:55a |
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metaquotes
[ joysweeper ]
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11:37a |
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| Monday, November 9th, 2009 |
valska
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12:36a |
Lost Jaws
Originally published at As My Life Is. You can comment here or there. 
Jaws got lost over the weekend.
Clare was annoying Jaws on Saturday morning, by rough handling her and was tugging at her legs. I warned Clare many times not to do it lest she gets bitten. The kiddo ignored me (as a 3 going on 13-year-old would) and suffered the consequences when Jaws decided she had enough.
I told Clare that she totally deserved it and refused to pander to her hysterics. (It wasn’t a bad bite either, just a warning one.) And behind Clare’s back, I punished Jaws by smacking her once, so that she too knows that it’s not right to sink her teeth into anyone, particularly family.
Soon after, Jaws slipped out. When we realised she went missing, we searched the whole block and walked round the entire estate. We later put up posters at the lift lobbies.
This is not the first time Jaws left home. The strange thing though, she doesn’t have the inclination to run out each time the door opens because I usually leave the door open when I’m at home. It’s unpredictable behaviour and it really depends on her mood. The past 3-4 times that she’s walked out, we’ve caught her in the act, except for once when a neighbour found her and informed us he’s got her. What I find most bizarre about this latest incident is, Jaws has been very affectionate of late.
While she was gone, I went into this tirade about how I can’t stand the little dog for abandoning me and that I never want to see her again. When secretly inside, I was heartbroken.
The next morning, someone calls me to say that she’s got Jaws. What’s lovely about her is that she, too, has been walking Jaws around the estate in hope of finding her owners. We just somehow missed each other. She also explained that when her female dog was in heat, she, too, tried to leave home. I suppose it’s their animal instincts to look for a mate? (Yes, Jaws has been in heat for the past week.)
It was a pleasant surprise when the neighbour told us that Jaws was very affectionate towards her and her family, nothing like the crazy-hand-chomping dog I first brought home. (That is how she got her name!) I guess we must have been doing something right with her, and have managed to fix most of her distrust issues. And, unlike her previous owner, we didn’t lose her deliberately and made an effort to look for her.
A very sad thing about this incident though, is that someone removed most of our posters less than 24-hours since we put them up. Before Jaws was returned to us. In fact, we are lucky that the culprit didn’t remove the poster at the block where Jaws was picked-up, lest the neighbour wouldn’t have been able to contact me.
It’s very disheartening to see the ungraciousness of fellow Singaporeans. I can only speculate who might have removed them: [a] A member of the RC (Resident’s Committee) who feels that we didn’t get permission to put up the poster, hence, feels the need to uphold rules by removing them asap; [b] A cleaner who feels that the poster shouldn’t be up and/or doesn’t like dogs; [b] A disgruntled neighbour who thinks we are vandalising.
I can only count my lucky stars that whoever removed them, didn’t remove all and left one at the correct lift lobby.
Whatever it is, I’m just glad Jaws is home and I’m going to make her an ID collar with all my contact details. Thanks to all who helped by passing the word online, especially to Pat. We’ve got to set-up that doggy date soon! |
| Sunday, November 8th, 2009 |
fleurrochard
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4:41p |
There are so many things I should be doing, but OMG I'm not motivated to do them at all. I'm not motivated to do anything, really - that includes reading, wtf. Ok, I could be motivated to watch the third episode of White Collar. I watched the first two yesterday and fell in love after about two minutes. Whee! But I should do some of the things that need doing first. *sighs*   Current Mood:  blah |
davethegreat
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5:40a |
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tuan
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2:38p |
Газета.Ру, похоже, бухает с утра:  |
tuan
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2:10p |
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tuan
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1:12p |
На любимую тему
Трудно, трудно будет Вере Мальцевой всю-то долгую зимнюю ночку ехать с таким попутчиком в Нижний Новгород, в командировку, где у нее вдобавок сложное дело... – Чего-то я бормотала ночью во сне, да?- спросила она холодным, розовым, снежным новгородским утром, когда поезд подкатывал к вокзалу. http://lib.rus.ec/b/134733/readДмитрий Быков. Интеллигентный, блядь, человек, говорят. И Александр Кабаков, говорят, блядь, тоже. А туда же. |
tuan
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12:38p |
Прочел вчера нового Пелевина. Ну да, вторичен, третичен, очевиден и т.п. и т.д. Но удовольствие от прочтения сравнимое с Чапаевым и Пустотой. То есть гораздо лучше всего, что он написал после Generation П. При том что читал с экрана, наверняка многое упустил. Но по сравнению с никакущими П5 и ДППНН, и средненькими Ампир В и А Хули - просто прекрасно. |
sagcelt62
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1:17a |
Macallan Scotch Tasting
Last night I went to the Macallan Scotch Tasting in LA. The event was quite nice. Was held at the old archdiocese building, which is very pretty! Suggested donation to the charity was $5. 5 Tastings, up to the 18 year old... Sadly no 25 Y.O or 30 Y.O. However a nice experience and time overall. I have some pictures then need lightening up then will post later. |
| Saturday, November 7th, 2009 |
mock_the_stupid
[ rakshanda ]
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1:12p |
U.S. Representative John Boner Boehner tries to quote the preamble to the Constitution (the one he's holding) and quotes the Declaration of Independence instead. |
| Friday, November 6th, 2009 |
mock_the_stupid
[ marveen ]
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2:46p |
Automotive stupidity
My boyfriend worked as a mechanic for a couple decades, and as such he's pretty much Seen It All--you know, the electric tape over that pesky oil light, the music up loud to drown out that funny noise...but this one really stood out. Scenario: customer walks into a parts store and requests something simple....say, spark plug wires. And this dialogue follows: Clerk: What kind of car is it? Customer: A fodo. (The r-dropping makes it worse somehow--I swear I thought it was some exotic European make I'd never heard of before.) Clerk: Yeeesss...but what KIND of four-door is it? Customer: It a V8. And the worst part is, he says that not only did this happen REGULARLY, but about three times out of five the next information they would come out with was the color of the paint. Because the fact that your car has four doors will really narrow down the specific parts you need. O.o Current Mood:  amused |
mock_the_stupid
[ fairy_glamour ]
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12:20a |
Civics class stupidity.
I'm a senior in high school and the things I hear from the mouths of my peers are simply stunning. I just want to either bang my head against the wall or burst into tears on a daily basis. In the beginning of the semester, a student asked, "Do we have a prime minister?" (We are in the US. This should not be a question you need to ask as a 17/18 year old.) Yesterday a student asked if women could run for president. I go to an all-girls school and we just finished watching a movie about the women's rights movement. Not to mention, where has she been for the last couple of years? A woman just did run for president, idiot. I genuinely fear for the future. There are some relatively intelligent and informed students in the class and the school as a whole. But the rest...I just do not understand how they will ever survive in life. D: Even more insanely stupid things happen quite often. I could fill a journal. |
| Sunday, November 8th, 2009 |
ijuintekka
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6:04a |
Dance Magic Dance
 Look upon my mage and tremble at the sight of his meager, I mean, impressive 8 levels! (So far.)Duncan is an ass, I'm still pissed that he killed Ser Jory... There was just no need. You can't just suddenly tell someone "drink demon blood or I keel j00!" and expect everyone to be cool with that. Stupid Duncan. And damn it, I don't want to be a Grey Warden. I keep avoiding the choices where I identify myself as a Grey Warden, and yet people still keep calling me one! I could have kicked Darkspawn ass without drinking the damn blood anyway. If I had been given a choice in the matter, I wouldn't have swallowed it, sadly I was railroaded into it by the cutscene. Other than that, everything's cool with the main story so far. I'm romancing Leliana because she seems like the nice sort, but only because of the lack of a female Elf for me to work my magic over. =( I would have liked a romance enabled female elf in my party... Sadly it was not to be. Inferno is a great spell! I love burning a room full of things with it. The best things about Inferno are the huge area of effect and the fact it doesn't require a line of sight to cast it! so I can burn things from around corners and get the jump on a room full of enemies. Current Mood:  chipper |
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